Advice And Admiration

The book of Proverbs is about Biblical wisdom and gives advice about values, moral behavior, and the meaning of life. Most of the content is written by King Solomon about 3000 yrs ago to his children (my son, take heed). However the last chapter starts with advice from a mother to her son, a king, and finishes with the characteristics and admiration of a wife.

This will be the first Mother's Day without my mother. I've shared her words of advice about values and behavior before. However this morning I'm thinking more about the advice she showed me by example. The first is to love the unlovable. Next, not be hypersensitive or easily upset by criticism I hear about myself or those I love. And finally to be ok when acts of kindness, caring, and going the extra mile, go unnoticed. 

The author of Proverbs 31 finishes with the virtues of a wife of noble character. Jewish tradition thinks this chapter was written by Bathsheba to her son, King Solomon. Heaven knows he could have used the advice, having 700 wives and 300 concubines.

Here are some virtues the author writes about a capable and precious wife, vs 17, she is an energetic and hard worker, vs 20, she extends a helping hand and open arms to the needy, vs 25, she laughs without fear of the future, vs 26, she gives instruction with kindness, vs 28, her husband and children praise and bless her.

Last Sunday our family got together. It was fun to have Cody and his wife Tori join us from Sioux Falls, South Dakota. Cody is Mike and Suzanne's son.

After lunch the grandkids started a baseball game. Grandpa was fulltime pitcher for awhile. Thanks for the picture Emily.

Friday morning Mark and Stacy's, Amelia, and her fiancé, Tysen, graduated from Dordt University. They get married in two weeks. I enjoyed helping them yesterday morning. Thanks for the picture.

We are coasting to a finish as far as getting crops in. And I'd say by the emptiness of our seed shed most others around here are finishing as well. Next week starts haying and 2nd pass corn spraying.

Happy Mother's Day to these wonderful gals. My wife Jan, daughter Becky, daughter-in-laws Suzanne, Cassia, Stacy, Kristin, and Emily, and one of our granddaughter-in-laws where this picture was taken at her bridal shower last year. She, Ella, and John are expecting in October.  Proverbs 31:30 talks about a woman who fears the Lord. I have to agree with the apostle John when he says, we have no greater joy than to know that our children are walking in the Truth. 3 John 3: 4 paraphrased. 

I will say one doesn't get away with much these days. Last night Jan mentioned that I must have stopped at Caseys today. I did after I had brought Matt soybean seed. She said I had an email requesting a survey. 😕 My advice for husbands today is to praise and bless the family God has given you, (vs 28). And laugh without fear of the future, because He is in charge, (vs 30).

Passing It Forward

Good morning friends. Let's start with the meat and potatoes of what's been on my mind this week. And then finish our hopefully short and interesting visit with a "what if". Tatum was at Grandma with his farm toys, a book called "Wisdom", and his farm boots. Wow, one could write a story on this picture alone. Where will Tatum be in 50 short years? What will God's purpose be for him? Will his Grandfather have had any influence, good or bad, on his future?

I'm a long ways from perfect. Just ask the family that gets written about every week. Forgetfulness, not big on details, and often too busy. But I serve a God that is perfect, and because of His goodness, what we have as a family is beautiful. Hazel and Jayden are showing some pieces of the Old Testament Biblical tabernacle they built as a class in school. 

Thursday morning I joined Zach, Elijah, Anton, Elliot, Ezra, and Adi for a high school chapel on Grandparents Day.

"Tell your children about it in the years to come, and let your children tell their children. Pass the story down from generation to generation". Joel 1:3 There will always be sticks and stones in our lives, just like the prophet Joel wrote about in the Old Testament. Harris helped me pick them up on Friday when he came to help after Grandparents Day. Jackson and Malaki helped yesterday.

On Monday we had another half inch of rain. By Wednesday we were spraying in the dryer areas, both custom work and our own.

By late in the week we were back planting both corn and soybeans. The kids, grandkids, and the help run multiple field cultivators, planters, sprayers, spray tenders, and seed tenders. I fill in where needed.

Yesterday afternoon and evening I planted corn since Kurt's family had a Boonie's wood fired pizza event to serve at. In Psalm 78, Asaph says, Hey folks listen up. I have stories from the past. Let's not hide these truths from our children. Tell the next generation about God's mighty deeds, power, and wonders. Psalm 78:1-4 paraphrased.

Late Friday night under a near full moon, things were rocking and rolling. I forgot to take a picture as I watched the action from my office in the house. I thought seriously about helping, but decided the next generations had it covered just fine. Just like Tatum, they started with farm toys, farm boots, and God-given "wisdom" passed along.

Thanks for the picture last night Kurt. Today after church our family is getting together for breaded tenderloins and pork patties, in the shop across the road because the cabin has guests. A blessing indeed. Our culture today is encouraging young folks to not, or wait, to get married and have kids because of convenience and finances. Jan and I had 3 children by the time we were 23 and 24 yrs old. "What if" we had decided or were not able not to have kids until after that age? There would be 26 less of the 40 family coming today. Accept God's gifts and purpose for you. Then pass those gifts forward to others.

Journey Or Destination

Have you ever waved at a conductor in a train engine and wondered where he was going, his destination? I know. The dude is probably doing his eight hour shift. However have you ever wondered how he got to driving trains, if he has a family, and where he calls home? That's his journey.

We've had 5 inches of rain in April. Our tile are working 24/7. For the most part we've been in the field in late March, and Monday-Thursday of this past week. There has been a lot of lawnmower seat time. When you can mow and think about other things at the same time. Like how so many things have changed on this journey of life. Folks want to think it's faster and crazier. However it was fast and crazy 50 yrs ago. I'm thinking narrower and less horsepower.

Our IHC 856 was purchased the summer after my Junior year in high school. A 4 row cyclo planter, the rage of the early 1970s, the spring before my Senior year. The $45/56# bag seed went in the ground with runner openers. The fertilizer for the crop was banded on in 50# bags. The herbicide was banded over the row and went in 20# row units on the back of the planter. Every tillage and planting trip was done with the same tractor. I had the latest technology with a blinking Dickey John seed monitor. With all the seed, fertilizer, and herbicide, bag stops, 60 acres was a huge day. It took about 1 gallon diesel/acre for a 100 hp tractor.

A 24 row high speed planter can put in 600 acres/day. That's over 250 bags of seed corn, treated with biologicals at the seed shed.  And the driver can still get a little sleep at night. Most of our fertilizer was applied earlier. And a sprayer is chasing him out of the field, applying herbicide and a little more nitrogen. It takes only 1/4 gallon diesel/acre for a 400 hp tractor planting.

50 years ago we counted bags, and wrote it in a pocket notebook we carried. Today we count seeds. Plus the equipment keeps track of what you see below, plus dates, time of day, acres/hour, direction traveled/swipe, weather temp, humidity, wind speed and direction, and soil temp and moisture content. And the "cloud" puts it all in neat folders that you can pull up by field, by equipment, or by hybrid. This fall the combines have all this info preloaded.

Our late March planted crops look great planted during that dry spell. These acres will be ready for second pass spraying soon. The sprayers collect and save data similar to the planters. They count ounces of product and gallons of water. And the "cloud" keeps them from spraying waterways, terraces, and outside field borders.

Farming isn't the only set of tracks on our journey. In fact it's after our Faith, our Family, and our Friends. Jan and I were remembering and reminiscing last evening. Our oldest, Mike, will be 49 yrs old in August. Wow! Then Mark. Then BJ. Becky's birthday was 10 days ago. Kurt and Karl were born 37 yrs ago today. I remember all those "birth" days well, but won't bore you with the details. Thanks for the picture.

Our children all now have spouses, children, and activities of their own, and are on their own journeys. Friday evening was a preK-4th grade program at Oskaloosa Christian Grade School. They did a great job.

Last evening was Allison's (Mark and Stacy), and Natalie's (BJ and Cassia) 8th grade banquet. My 8th grade banquet was at Bethel CRC church in 1970. High school kids sang a chant, and made us walk around our table with a girl. Thanks for the picture Stacy.

Looking back, so many God directed details, struggles, and blessings. But let's wrap this up looking forward. How do we best live out this temporary journey here on earth? By being a 2AM friend to others. By showing brotherly love. By being salt in a spoiling world. By hanging on loosely to things. By having a servant heart. Folks say it's the journey, not the destination. Oh, but there is a destination. It's just not here on earth. It's spending eternity with our Lord. Let's help experience a little Heaven here on earth until we get there.

Promises

It's hard not to visit about promises when we see such glorious colors in the sky, and remembering the meaning of those colors. A clear night sky full of stars remind us of God's power. A partial red moon last week showing through a gloomy, cloudy sky reminds us of God's presence. A rainbow after a hard rain this past Wednesday evening reminds us of God's promise.

We had another wet week in southern Iowa. Actually the 3rd one in a row. The old wives' tale is proving true about the promise of rain 100 days after a fog. Remember we had a lot of foggy mornings in January. Below the blossoms are promising a good cherry crop.

These planters have been sitting for close to 3 weeks. With our current forecast I'm hoping we can run two sprayers tomorrow (Monday), and be rocking and rolling again with the planters on Tuesday.

I picked a poor time of day to get a photo of emerged soybeans. However they came up in two weeks and are starting to show up in the row.

Thanks for the picture Kristin. Karl and family worked on seed deliveries and organizing the seed shed this past week. Taking the time to work along side and use our younger helpers promises an upcoming generation that will be assets in whatever they choose to do as adults.

Extra curricular activities at school also help the discipline, teamwork, and growing up process of young folks. This week provided an opportunity to go watch several grandkids and their teammates compete in a track meet last Tuesday evening, including them break a couple of school records.

Wet weeks sometimes give us the opportunity to do less important jobs. Like starting and cleaning up older tractors after they have been sitting all winter. Below is a 1971 JD 4020 (sticker price $10,000), a 1971 IHC 1456 (original sticker price $12,000), and a 1976 Ford 7600 (sticker price $13,000). These were the workhorses 50 yrs ago. The sticker prices on today's workhorses are from $500,000 to $900,000. That's a 5000% price increase in 50 yrs, with crop prices increasing around 50% during that same time frame.

We finished putting up our pallet racking in the shop across the road and now are busy sorting and organizing.

We have lost a couple of friends and fellow blog family members this past month. Linda was married to my oldest cousin Dick who passed away in 2018. Jan and I stopped by Owen's room and took this picture one Sunday earlier this year while also visiting our former landlady, Esther, who lived in the room next to Owen. Both loved the Lord and had the promise of heaven.

In Genesis 9 God first set a rainbow in the sky when He promised Noah no more flooding the whole earth. It was also a promise then and now of God's redeeming grace and mercy. God's promises also include our protection and  provision. He promises the Holy Spirit to speak for us when we are unsure how to pray, and promises those prayers will be answered. God gives us nudges, part of the promise of our purpose. He gives us wisdom if we ask. And finally God is our living hope with the promise of heaven if we accept His gift of salvation for our wrongdoings. Blessings.

Anchored

When I was in the 3rd grade we had to memorize a Psalm a week. Not a verse, a chapter. Not as a class, but stand beside our desk when we were called on, and recite it a student at a time. 

Monday, we delivered seed to my brother Doug and Ginger's house. 

Thursday was the only day we were in the field this past week. John is helping his Dad, BJ, load the planter. "The Lord is my Shepherd, I shall not want..." Psalm 23. This promise helps us stay anchored.

Alex sprayed ground going to soybeans, while Karl sprayed either planted corn or ground going to corn. Jim and Dean delivered them product with semi and tenders. Everyone got rained out midafternoon.

"The earth is the Lord's and everything in it..." Psalm 24. During the rainy days we had several guests for morning coffee. In business we visited about being anchored with collateral, both finances and relationships. In politics we agreed values and freedoms were firm anchors.

These are mama cows Jim had just fed before we unloaded seed at Keith and Julie's place.

We needed more storage to keep things organized. So Wednesday grandson Ezra went with me to Pleasant Hill to purchase used pallet racking. Alex, Jim, and Dean helped paint the uprights Friday. Saturday morning, grandsons Jayden and Lane helped me assemble them. 

"Why do the nations rage, and people plot in vain..." Psalm 2. It seems we're having a lull in the wars and rumors of wars around the world.

Elijah had new corner panels and rockers replaced on his truck. So yesterday Uncle Mike helped him repaint them. First primer, then blue, then clearcoat.

Some folks flew around the moon this past week. We don't see God directly, however I've always considered the moon and stars on a clear night truly seeing His glory. One early, dark, cloudy, rainy morning this past week I drove the Ranger up the hill to pray. We have a blue Bethlehem star, and a white cross on our grain leg. The sky was completely dark. Yet when I took this picture, God's glory (red moon) shown through. "The heavens declare the glory of God; the skies proclaim His handiwork". Psalm 19.

Last Sunday those of us who were available got together for Easter dinner. I'm thinking today's generations have less to memorize. Things like telephone numbers, map directions, and even scripture, are at the tip of their fingers, on their screens.

I think young minds are keen, sharp, and way more capable than we give them credit for. I still remember conversations with friends back then. I remember what I got for my birthday from my parents. And yes, I still remember these Psalms. So today being Sunday, "Make a joyful noise to the Lord, all ye lands. Serve the Lord with gladness; come before His presence with singing. Know ye that He is God. It is He that hath made us, and not we ourselves..." Psalm 100. Yes, 60 years ago, I memorized these Psalms from the KJV. And they are anchors I value.

This Changes Everything

There have been 69 Easter Sunday mornings in my years here on earth. I don't remember many of them. The first 18 were growing up with parents, brothers, and sisters. Then there were 3 with just Jan and I. Then there were around 30 years of having and raising children. The last two time periods have obviously overlapped, however the last 18 Easter Sunday mornings have been back to Jan and I, witnessing God's faithfulness, in grown children, grandchildren, and even great grandchildren.

Change is exciting and scary. I hope for it. Yet at the same time I often try to avoid it. Thursday morning Mark helped me clean trash trees out of a heavy fencerow. 

We hope the weather changes. Then we hope it doesn't. After a long dry spell, we had close to 2 inches of rain here in southern Iowa. Jim and Dean spent a wet morning welding stress cracks on a RoGator boom.

Before the showers we put in a seed test plot across from our house. We've been planting test plots for 40 years, watching yield, moisture, emergence, and standability. However I'm thinking this is the first one planted in March.

During the beginning of the Middle East conflict we had some April contracts hit, because of commodity markets initially following crude oil price increases. Often commodity prices react hard, up or down, to a change, and then settle back down to a pattern. The old timers would call that, "Sell the rumor, Buy the fact". This statement also often proves true when our president announces changes on social media.

Just after Easter in 2020, Rudy and his crew of ex-Amish young men, built our shop across the road. One Sunday that spring Jan and I invited Rudy and his wife to church and lunch afterwards. Rudy and Becca returned the favor this past week, inviting Jan and I to an Easter play at their church. Kudos to Moravia Nazarene Church using 95 cast members from their church to reenact that first Easter. The gentleman with his son in the picture helped Rudy build our shop. He also built our son Mike's shop last year. 

An empty grave that first Easter Sunday morning changes everything for us today. We don't just hope, we have an absolute assurance of Heaven when our life on earth ends. Jan and I visited the grave below in 2019 near Jerusalem, Israel. Why do we think this may have been the very grave that first Easter? Because it's empty.

We've seen many changes over 69 years on earth. How many do I and you have left? That's not for us to know. However when it's time to meet my Savior after earth, I don't want Him asking me why I just assumed all my friends knew about and have accepted His gift accomplished that first Easter. So here's what I've prayed many years ago, and ask you to do as well if you haven't yet. SIN. Lord I've fallen short. LOVE. I know You love me. GRACE. I accept that You died for my wrongs. FAITH. I believe you arose from the grave that first Easter, and I surrender the rest of my days on earth to try my best to live for You. As many of you know, this prayer changes everything! Blessings my friends.